MaRriaGe

i went to my pal's ROM yesterday...he's getting married....haa...goodness...i guess i am going to get more in future? many friends are now at the age who are planning to get married..when will it be mine ? haha...well...i use to wish to get married at a young age cuz i wanted to settle down...but however...now...nah...i won't want to get married...partially no one wants me.. :P

just kidding...i dunno if there is anyone who want me...but marriage is something serious cuz ya going to face the person for at least half your lifetime..in times of happiness, sadness and everything, you gotta stand by your future husband or wife..

however, marriage now is taken quite lightly...the number of divorces are increasing..hmm...well..it may be a good sign though..cuz the moment you dun feel happy, you dun have to suffer, just divorce..however, traditionally, you have broken the promise you make on the day of ROM..you have taken the initiative to go for solemnization (correct spelling?!?), but u did not abide by it..kinda sad....

however..there are still happiness la...there are still many good marriages around..my parents' is one of them.. hee...i am already 23 this year..they have got married for almost 25 years...well...definitely, there will be disputes, but it will be solved..and still happily marriage..this shld be the way isn't it ?

Good luck to all those in love...those preparing to get married...think twice and be serious over your decision..marriage is not for show or play...jiayou!!!